Donovan's 1st Birthday Party for a Classmate

This is Donovan before we left for a birthday party for 2 boys in his class.

This was the first birthday party Donovan has attended that was not for family or close family friends. It was held at a local gymnastic academy. Donovan loved running along a long trampoline and then jumping down into a pit of foam pieces, doing an obstacle course, trying out the balance beams, and swinging on ropes.


Donovan had so much fun!

Boston Here We Come...

We are heading to Boston early tomorrow morning. After checking into our hotel, we plan to take the T to Chinatown to walk around and do some shopping. Then we will head back to our hotel for dinner, baths, and an early bedtime. Tuesday back on the T to The Children's Museum.
Donovan's preschool class did extensive studying of trains and subways in the fall, so both he and Aaron and looking forward to riding the T again. Aaron keeps reminding us he rode on a monorail at JFK airport (true) and I've been hinting that he and Donovan will soon ride on another monorail (we are telling them on Easter the full details of what we have planned that involves a monorail!). Donovan's class has recently been studying about cities, skyscrapers and architecture (and Philippe Petit!), so there will be lots to discuss as we walk around the city. We will be taking photos in Boston.

Adoption Day Anniversary (one year ago)

One year ago, on April 13, we returned to the Civil Affairs office in Guangzhou, after having Aaron with us for 18 hours, and finalized his adoption.
It's OFFICIAL!

With the official who registered/notarized the adoption.

I remember our guide (knowing we were going to Xiangjiang Safari Park all day the next day, and an all day trip to the orphanage the following day) then suggested we quickly head over to the Medical Exam on Shamian Island, and so we did. It was a lot to do all in one morning, and Aaron did great!
Just after the Medical Exam.

Lunch back at the hotel with our "Noodle Boy!"


The year has gone so quickly. While it seems like Aaron has always been in our family, it also often seems like it was just yesterday when we were walking the streets of Guangzhou with him. Looking forward to this next year together as a family. We certainly have some exciting things coming our way...

Get Your Tissues Ready!!!!!!

Tonight, Aaron pointed up at the photo above my bed (below, first photo I ever saw of him)

and then pointed across the room at this photo (below)

Do you have your Kleenex ready?
and he said, "Mommy, I didn't smile in China. Do you know why I didn't smile?"
And so I replied, "I don't know Aaron...why didn't you smile in China?"
and he answered, "Because I didn't have Mommy and Daddy yet."
Then he proceeded to point to this photo (below, taken on Chinese New Year this year)

and said, "Now I smile SO MUCH. Because now I have Mommy and Daddy. I love you Mommy!" and then ran in to his bedroom (where Daddy was) and repeated the same conversation with him. We did take a moment to point out to him that he did smile in China, just not in those photos. He was quick to respond, "I didn't smile in THOSE PHOTOS because I didn't have Mommy and Daddy yet."

Adopting a child won't change the world, but for that child, the world will change.

One Year Ago, April 12, We Met Our Son!

Last year, on April 12, we sat on a black leather couch in the Adoption Registry Office in Guangzhou, waiting for the Civil Affairs office to reopen from lunch, and for the children from the Bao'an orphanage to arrive. As we sat there waiting (we were early), the elevator doors opened, and our son walked off an elevator and into our lives. The year has gone so fast. When I see photos of Guangzhou, from other families traveling to adopt their children, in an instant I am taken back to the sights, smells(!), and feel of China, and what it felt like to finally have our son with us.
These are a few photos from our first day with Aaron.

Waiting for Aaron to Arrive...

Photo of the 3 of us with two caregivers from the orphanage who brought the children from the orphanage to Guanzghou (about a 2 hour ride).

Mommy & Aaron

A Happy Boy (with his juice)

Father and Son Looking Down at the City Streets Below


Today, while Donovan was at preschool, Aaron and I had some errands to run. When we were in the car, I mentioned to Aaron that one year ago today we met him in China. He said, "And you gave me a green and white sippy cup with a straw and it had grape juice in it. We took lots of pictures [true!]. Then we got in the minivan. At the hotel you gave me some toys and I got to ride in a blue and orange stroller." These are things I have NOT mentioned to him in the year we have been home. I was planning to look through his scrapbook with him this week of the day we met, day we adopted him, safari park, orphanage visit, etc.....I am amazed he remembered those details on his own- well, I take that back - nothing should amaze me at this point about this incredible little boy. He has a phenomenal memory.
As we drove in the car, Aaron was pointing out UPS trucks, dump trucks, cement mixers, garbage trucks, etc, and saying "There's Koto's Steakhouse where we went to dinner with Grandma, and there's Kids Town where we buy my sneakers." He remembers every detail of what we do!
When we got to the mall, we had items to return to both Kohl's and JcPenny, and decided to park by Kohl's and afterwards, walk across the parking lot on this gorgeous sunny day to JcPenny. As we held hands, Aaron exclaiming, "I'm Buzz Lightyear...to infinity and beyond" as he skipped and jumped over the cracks in the sidewalk, he stopped and looked up at me, and said, "I love you so much Mommy!" and wrapped his arms around my legs, and of course, I just melted. We are so lucky!

what a differene a year makes! While of course I want Aaron to be proud of the country he was born in and his culture, when people look at him they see a typical 4 year old American boy, and when I look at him, I just see the most gorgeous smile, his enthusiasm for life, his happiness, and most of all...I just see, my son!

The photo above was taken on Chinese New Year.

One Year Ago We Were in China

One Year ago, on April 8th, our plane touched down in Hong Kong, and after a short layover, we flew into Guangzhou. After that, we had three full days in which we did some sightseeing and acclimated ourselves to our surroundings and the time difference, before meeting our son.

One Year Ago We started our Trip to China

One Year ago our trip to meet our new son began. On the afternoon of April 6, we flew from our local airport to JFK. We spent the night at a hotel near the airport, in preparation for an early morning flight on Cathay Pacific to HK, and then on to Guangzhou, where we would stay for 2 weeks.