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With Great Joy We Introduce Our Newest Son Aaron Donald Walsh Ho

With Great Joy We Introduce Our Newest Son Aaron Donald Walsh Ho
Born January 17, 2007 Guangdong Province, The People's Republic of China Forever Ours April 12, 2010
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."
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Sunday, August 11, 2013

Sunday (hottest day so far, with hotter coming soon)

I'm sure by now people are getting sick of me complaining about the heat, but OMG there is NOTHING like this. I've been to Hawaii - in June/July and that was NOTHING compared to this. NOTHING. This is beyond belief. 97 today (heat index of 110), 98 tomorrow, 99 Tuesday, and then we leave Wednesday. Rupert and I are really looking forward to returning to Vermont's climate!

We had nothing special planned for today, so we slept in and went to breakfast around 9. Our hotel’s breakfast buffet is expansive and delicious. Yesterday was very crowded. Probably 200 people. As the only Caucasian, I attracted much attention, without wanting to of course (I am the kind of person who does NOT like to attract attention…but it is unavoidable here!). Many people (mostly women older than me) were staring at me. Watching me feed Sarah.  Today was less busy. Sarah packed it away as usual - eggs, noodles, watermelon, cantaloupe, bacon, and a big glass of MILK (She loves milk!)
ready for breakfast

After breakfast, we headed out to walk around a little. We went over to Shamian Island again. This time we walked along the waterfront, and saw the playground. Sarah enjoyed watching the children coming down the slides, but had no interest in going onto the playground. There was a playground at Bao’an orphanage. How often she actually used it I have no idea (my gut feeling is that while she and Aaron were both posed for photos on it or near it, they used it very little). We had already finished our shopping on Shamian yesterday, but needed to pick up laundry today. Then we headed back to our room.
Happy, Happy Girl

ready for shopping

doing a dance

wanting Mama to put a fancy hairbow in, not just a barrette

After lunch, we headed up to the pool. Today was the first time anyone else was up there at the gorgeous rooftop pool. There was a Chinese family (father, 2 children, grandmother, grandfather) up there. The dad and two kids were in the pool. There was a boy, about 8 and a girl about 4. The grandparents even got in the pool – quite unusual for Chinese. We were assuming they were from Hong Kong (they spoke Cantonese, like Rupert, not Mandarin). The fact that they had two children made it seem like they were tourists, not local residents. However, their mother came up to the pool area to watch them and she is an employee at the hotel. So, clearly they are local. Sparked my curiosity of course. There are times when families are allowed two children, but it is quite rare. If BOTH parents are only children, they are allowed to apply for a permit to have a second child. Some minority groups are allowed to have two children (if both parents are from a minority group), but that was not the case for this family. I have heard that in some parts of China, if a family has a boy first, they may sometimes apply for a permit to have a second child. However, that does not seem to be the case in Guangzhou, and this family was not from a more Northern area, since they were speaking Cantonese. In any case, it’s probably the second family I’ve seen with 2 children, since we’ve been here (exception has been tourists from Hong Kong). The other family was extremely well-dressed and one would assume they were quite wealthy and able to pay for a permit for a second child, or the parents could have been only children themselves.

Sarah had a lot of fun in the pool today. She’s getting so brave. She’s not holding on to me as tightly. She’s kicking her legs, moving her arms around, splashing wildly (Rupert and I both end up soaked), and dunking her own head into the water. We were in the pool about an hour. It was great!

And then…we had our parenting fail moment again. We came back to the room, changed out of bathing suits and I was about to put Sarah down for a nap when the cleaning staff came to clean our room. We decided to head out to the bakery (the one where my new friend works) to stock up on cookies. By the time we got back, the room was still being cleaned. So we went up to the Executive Lounge and had some snacks. Sarah had her second piece of cake for the day. The girl loves cake! When we got back to our room, it seemed too late for a nap (It was close to 3:15 and we planned to leave to walk over to dinner around 4.) So…we thought, hey why not just skip nap and as soon as we get back from dinner we will give her a bath and put her to bed early, since we have to get up EARLY for our US Consulate appointment…BIG MISTAKE…Seriously, you would think I had never been mom to a 2 year old before! So, we played with Sarah, and around 4 got ready for dinner, walked over to the Metropolitan Plaza Guangzhou (modern mall) which is less than a 10 minute walk and when we went to get Sarah out of the stroller to go up the escalator, she was sound asleep. And I mean SOUND asleep. We went up to the Cantonese restaurant. She slept on me and when our meal came I was able to set her on the booth seat and she slept through the entire meal. Rupert and I had a great meal.  (We plan to go back tomorrow night!) Sarah woke up just as the meal was ending. She was disoriented and crying. I walked out of the restaurant with her, and walked around out in the mall, while waiting for Rupert to pay the bill and grab our stuff. I attracted a lot of attention of course. I am sure people were thinking, Look at that American lady with the screaming Chinese kid…and I’m sure they were thinking lots of other things too…Luckily Sarah calmed down, Rupert came out, and away we went. Only problem was Sarah missed dinner. So, we walked back to our hotel, and Rupert went out to get her take-out. She DEVOURED the largest bowl of rice and BBQ pork. She ate about 4 times the amount Aaron and Donovan would eat of any food. This girl has quite an appetite!

Tonight she has been playing SO silly and talking so much. She is SO musical. She makes music with all her toys. She’s been using two magic wands as drumsticks.

Tomorrow we will be up early (but not AS EARLY as Wednesday when we need to leave our hotel at 5:45) to head to the US Embassy for an 8:30 Consulate Appointment. 

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